What are rules and why do we need rules? According to Merriam-Webster, one of the definitions expressed that a rule is a prescribed guide for conduct or action. What does this have anything to do with BDSM? Well, rules are a big part of negotiating for a scene that way nearly everything can run as smoothly and effortlessly as possible. Rules are put in place to provide guidance and safety for everyone involved that way nobody gets hurt or misunderstood in the process. A rule establishes boundaries and respect for all parties involved, and anyone that tries to overstep any boundary is not respectful enough to get to book a session with Me. Overall, rules are set to keep people under control and to keep them safe too; do you see where I’m going with this?
My number one rule is always going to be about safety.
- Respect – It’s really simple, you respect Me and I respect you, it’s really that easy!
- Follow through with screening – This is for My safety and to know if you’re not a serial killer or cop. I take privacy and discretion very seriously with all of My submissives.
- Must have a sense of humor – If you can’t handle a little bit of humor from time to time then we will NOT get along. Sorry, not sorry.
- Traffic light system – I don’t believe in playing with someone without a safeword! It’s just not safe and it does not make Me comfortable.
- Hard limits – Hard limits are put in place to prevent any discomfort during a scene. All parties should understand and remember what is off the table for all people being involved with the scene.
- Have fun! – Sometimes it’s hard to fully submit yourself to someone especially when you’re playing with someone unfamiliar. I understand and that’s why I want to create a safe, warm, and encouraging environment for the both of us.
Now that we got the boring and tedious stuff out of the way… are you ready to book a playdate with your Mother Venus?